Friday, March 28, 2014

Guest Post: The Best Spring Break Party EVAH!


 “So how does a Ugandan party unfold?” we asked, adding to the never-ending list of questions that we’ve peppered our hosts with.

“Well,” said Bill and Theresa patiently, “you’re about to find out.”

The party started on our very own taxi, a small bus with Allah’s name displayed prominently on the windshield. We piled in: five Americans, ten Ugandans and three crates of soda pop, taken from Salama Springs’ larder, strapped to the top.

Getting from point A to point B is part of the adventure in Uganda. This ride was no exception. There was singing, laughing, one police stop and a good dose of general chaos. Throughout, the Ugandan passengers launched into lengthy observations in Lugandan, punctuated by the word “Mzungu” and laughter. Though Theresa tried, we were never able to get an accurate translation of what they were saying about their Mzungu passengers.
The taxi - full of Salama Springs "family" and mzungus

Finally, after the tarmac turned to red dirt, and then to a meandering path into a forest, we arrived at Prossey’s. To say we were met with a warm welcome would be an understatement. Kids ran alongside the taxi, adults smiled broadly. “You are most welcome,” they told us.  

We brought some little toys for the kids. 
Of all the things that Bill and Theresa have done to make our first visit to Uganda memorable, allowing us a glimpse into the community they have built here has been the most extraordinary. Between their friends at Bead for Life, New Vision and Salama Springs, we have been exposed to the kindest and most authentic individuals in our travels in Uganda. This party, planned for weeks in advance, was the capstone of the experience.

And so the party began to unfold. Prossey, our hostess had been cooking since five in the morning. It was delicious: thick matoke, g-nut sauce and nakate (greens) prepared in banana leaves, chicken so locally sourced that the feathers hadn’t blown off the ground. We tried (and failed) to eat Ugandan portions. Even the kids took matoke mounds as big as their heads. Truly, the Ugandan feast rivaled and even surpassed American Thanksgiving portions, with all of us struggling to keep up.

Matoke making
After the eating was finished, I considered crawling under the shade of an avocado tree for a nap. But that would have meant missing a trip to the bore hole to fill up twenty-five jerry-cans of water.
Kate taking her turn at pumping the water at the bore-hole
The entire village assembled for the task. It was hot. Pot holes the size of small craters lined the road. It was hard not to think of our own neighborhood in Idaho. The streets are wide and clean, but walking on a winter’s day you might never see, not to mention talk to, another person.

The kids showed us how to pump the water. Ugandans cheered as Elliot lifted a Jerry-can of water onto his head. We walked up the road with our water, aware of the fact that the children in the village seemed less fatigued than we did, and remembering that they made this trek once or twice a day, every day.
Elliot carrying a jerry-can, to the delight of the Ugandans
Showing Elliot how its done. Note the stickers.

Theresa cut her cake. Everyone ate. There were some mzungu pictures, featuring us, looking sweaty and maybe a little confused as we posed in specific permutations—the mzungus with families, babies. The mzungus with the children. Just Kate and Deborah with two girls.  The only thing that finally put an end to the pictures was the time of day; the sun was going down, which meant, we were told, that the village would soon go entirely dark. 

And so we drove homeward, rattling down the dirt road. The soda crates were full of empties but we’d added a baby, four enormous, bulbous and pungent jackfruit and three chickens (bought by the taxi driver during the party) to the already-crowded cab.

“People of your skin color can be so proud,” said Sarah, the woman I sat next to. “They won’t sit with us the way you are sitting. But you carried the water. You are leaving soon, but they will be talking about you for a long, long time.”


I think it’s safe to say that we will, too.

Two friends: Prossey and Theresa

(This post is by daughter Kate - we'll miss our great visitors, Kate, Elliot and Deborah!)

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